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The
Blessings of Knighthood
One
should never aspire to knighthood for selfish purposes, such
as for ego, recognition or prestige. The vocation would lose its
meaning, and its title lessened.
Proper knighthood, for Chivalry-Now at
least, represents a solemn commitment to chivalry that is recognized
by our Council of Knights. Because we are not an order as
such, the proper title is "knight errant." The
individual knight remains a free agent in relationship to chivalry,
dedicated to the requirements of his or her own quest.
This makes the knighthood of Chivalry-Now different from
those of other organizations. Autonomy and authenticity, the hallmarks
of our intent, are thus preserved and encouraged. Our allegiance
to the integrity of truth must always be first, even within our
own fellowship.
Despite the selflessness of pure chivalry implies,
knighthood does bequeath certain blessings that are naturally derived
from living an authentic life.
- It
is a blessing to know that
you have freely dedicated yourself to a life of integrity, and
are recognized by your peers as having done so. It represents
a new beginning. Old ways of thinking are set aside. Your conscience
is clear. Your future enlivened by the quest.
- It
is a blessing to know
that you are not following someone else's lead or directions.
As much as possible, you are self-made. Whatever progress you
make is authentically your own. You express your own inner light
as you experience the world around you.
- It
is a blessing to know that
you cannot blame anyone else for your failures. It is the way
of the coward to "pass-the-buck." Whatever evil you
do will be yours alone to bear, but so will your accomplishments
for good. The happiness you attain will be derived from your own
decisions, not someone else's. Conscience becomes your guide,
not peer pressure from those around you.
- It
is a blessing to know that
mistakes are easier to forgive, because a knight's intentions
are predominantly honorable. Never hesitate to apologize or compensate
for your misdeeds.
- It
is a blessing to know
that people trust you. The reputation you build is founded on
high standards. Never betray that trust, or the standards, handed
down to you from the past, that chivalry represents.
- It
is a blessing to know
that chivalry makes you a better spouse, parent, child, sibling,
lover, friend, workmate, employer and employee.
- It
is a blessing to know
that genuine courtesy toward others, which is prominent in chivalry,
contributes to the harmony of the world.
For all these
reasons, and probably more, developing your life for the greater
good should never thought of as a burden to be shunned or drearily
accepted. It is a privilege that blesses a given life with purpose
and meaning beyond the ordinary.
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